Dating Decoder live
Stop guessing – start dating with purpose and clarity.
Discernment is your dating superpower.
Dating Decoder – Live! teaches you how to use it—so you can stop second-guessing, move forward with confidence and find the relationship that’s right for you.
Dating doesn’t have to be exhausting, confusing or disheartening.
If you’re tired of ghosting, endless swiping or attracting the wrong kind of partner, you’re not alone. Dating Decoder Live offers a clear, structured approach that makes dating a more joyful experience of growth and discovery.
This is for you if…
You’re ready to break old patterns
and start dating in a way that works for you.
You want an approach that sets you up for success
and helps you stay clear, confident and resilient throughout.
You want dating to feel joyful
rather than feel like hard work or anxiety-inducing.
You’re ready to change your experience
from frustration towards attracting the kind of relationship you want.
You’re open to growth
and are ready to learn a fresh perspective.
Introducing
Dating Decoder – Live
Tired of feeling stuck, second-guessing yourself or wondering if you’re ‘doing dating wrong’? Dating Decoder – Live gives you the structure, tools and mindset to take the guesswork out of dating so you can feel more empowered in finding the right person for you.
With Dating Decoder – Live, you’ll learn…
- The mindset that sets successful daters apart
- A practical framework for clarity, discernment and confidence
- Tools to overcome common dating pitfalls and emotional roadblocks
- A structure to understand compatibility—beyond surface-level attraction
- A new relationship with the dating process itself: light-hearted, focused and resilient
Here’s how it works
Discovery Call
A free Discovery Call to make sure it’s the right fit
COACHING CALLS
4 live group coaching sessions (fortnightly) to learn, share and grow
WORKBOOK
A Dating Decoder toolkit workbook to support your learning
Video Modules
Self-paced video content between sessions for deeper integration
Group Chat
A guided group chat for support, reflection and encouragement
Private CoachinG
A 30-minute 1:1 coaching session with Shelley—your personal bonus
Where & When
- 4 x 90-minute live group sessions
- Held fortnightly on Thursday evenings
- Your place: £540. Limited spaces available to keep the group interactive and supported.
Why Dating Decoder is different
- Based on decades of relationship coaching experience
- Grounded in a pragmatic, structured approach—not vague advice
- Designed to give you personalised tools and lasting change
- Supports you in building the confidence to stay true to yourself in dating
Bonuses
Included bonuses worth showing up for:
Private Coaching Check In: A private 1:1 coaching session with Shelley
Group Support Chat: A supportive group chat community during the course
Dating Decoder Toolkit: your ongoing resource for smart, empowered dating
Prefer to go at your own pace?
Dating Decoder – Self-Guided
Want to start right away, on your own schedule? The self-guided version of Dating Decoder is available now and includes the full video series, toolkit workbook and exercises, without the live group coaching component.
It’s a powerful, flexible way to access this proven approach to dating with clarity and confidence, in your own time.
