Beneath your grief is an untapped reservoir of hope. You can heal your heartbreak and create the enchanted life you deserve. It is possible.
Shelley J Whitehead
kintsugi for the heart
Your ‘once upon a time’ has given way to overwhelming heartbreak.
You never imagined your relationship would end this way. Everything in your world feels so small. You may be struggling to eat, sleep and hold a conversation. This is all normal, because you’re mourning an ending.
Heartbreak is a form of grief. There’s no need to fear what comes next – your pain will subside and your new life can be born from the rubble of your relationship. As you move through this grieving process, you can harness a transformational energy to create a life that is even more beautiful and even more embodied than before.
I call this process ‘kintsugi for the heart’.
I will help you heal your heartbreak and live an enchanted life.
Life doesn’t stop when you find yourself heartbroken – you still need to show up, even when you feel like a shell of yourself. I can guide you out of this pain through courses, personalised support and a series of tools and resources to help you fall in love with your new life.
Courses
Get simple healing frameworks that support you as you heal your heart, get back into dating and navigate your next relationship.
Coaching
Get bespoke breakup support and heal the past with private 1:1 coaching or group coaching.
Free Resources
Kickstart your healing with some introductory tools, including meditations to calm your mind and soothe your soul.
Courses for the brokenhearted
We have a range of powerful courses for moving beyond heartbreak and creating your enchanted life.
A five-step programme to take you from the depths of grief to relief
A course to help you navigate through the process of a separation where nobody is ‘at fault’
Hi, I’m Shelley!
I’m a relationship expert and have been coaching people worldwide through their heartbreak recovery for almost two decades. I know the soul-shrinking emptiness that comes with the ending of a relationship. I’ve been bereaved, dumped and divorced.
I’m here to guide you and give you the practical tools and support to help you move beyond pain, put the past behind you and make a fresh start.
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