Shelley J Whitehead

Beneath your grief is an untapped reservoir of hope. You can heal your heartbreak and create the enchanted life you deserve. It is possible.

Shelley J Whitehead

Healing your broken heart
kintsugi for the heart

Your ‘once upon a time’ has given way to overwhelming heartbreak.

You never imagined your relationship would end this way. Everything in your world feels so small. You may be struggling to eat, sleep and hold a conversation. This is all normal, because you’re mourning an ending.

Heartbreak is a form of grief. There’s no need to fear what comes next – your pain will subside and your new life can be born from the rubble of your relationship. As you move through this grieving process, you can harness a transformational energy to create a life that is even more beautiful and even more embodied than before.

I call this process ‘kintsugi for the heart’.

Shelley J Whitehead

I will help you heal your heartbreak and live an enchanted life.

Life doesn’t stop when you find yourself heartbroken – you still need to show up, even when you feel like a shell of yourself. I can guide you out of this pain through courses, personalised support and a series of tools and resources to help you fall in love with your new life.

Courses

Get simple healing frameworks that support you as you heal your heart, get back into dating and navigate your next relationship.

Coaching

Get bespoke breakup support and heal the past with private 1:1 coaching or group coaching.

Coaching

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Free Resources

Kickstart your healing with some introductory tools, including meditations to calm your mind and soothe your soul.

Free Resources

Calm my mind
Shelley J Whitehead - Relationship Coach

Courses for the brokenhearted

We have a range of powerful courses for moving beyond heartbreak and creating your enchanted life.

A five-step programme to take you from the depths of grief to relief

A course to help you navigate through the process of a separation where nobody is ‘at fault’

Hi, I’m Shelley!

I’m a relationship expert and have been coaching people worldwide through their heartbreak recovery for almost two decades. I know the soul-shrinking emptiness that comes with the ending of a relationship. I’ve been bereaved, dumped and divorced.

I’m here to guide you and give you the practical tools and support to help you move beyond pain, put the past behind you and make a fresh start.

What people say…

from Florida, USA

“The biggest gift Shelley gave me though was teaching me through her 5 step process how to actively love myself for the first time in my life. In late 2020, I was at an incredibly low point personally, dealing with fresh heartbreak, a lifetime of insecurities, and deeply unresolved trauma. I had worked with therapists over the course of several years and I thought I was doing everything I could to work on myself. I was drawn to Shelley, and reached out to make an appointment. That first appointment changed the trajectory of my life.”

Anisha V

from Saudi

“After finding Shelley on Instagram I immediately followed her as I was stuck in a toxic relationship. I signed up for the Healing Your Heartbreak course and it was the best decision I ever made. I needed the emotional support. After finishing the course I felt stronger, deeply connected to myself, grounded and focused on my vision.

Shahad N

from Bahrain

“Being introduced to Shelley has literally changed my life. After my 10 year marriage ended I was lost and single for 7 years. It was a huge issue to navigate on my own. I am so grateful because her wisdom, guidance and knowledge has propelled me to where I am in my life today. I overcame my heartbreak and I have valuable techniques to use in a wonderful relationship with a beautiful partner, whom I have been dating for one year.”

Abdul K

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