Shelley J Whitehead
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Relationships

Having healthy relationships is something that most people aspire to. It can be particularly challenging after heartbreak, particularly if you have lost your footing and are mired in self-doubt. Focusing on good communication skills and harmonious connection is an excellent starting place. 

Good boundaries after a breakup

Good boundaries after a breakup

As you leave a relationship, in the early stages of  a breakup, you may find yourself struggling with fully separating and differentiating your thoughts (from the place of ‘we’ to ‘I’) and reclaiming your boundaries....

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How to be a better listener

How to be a better listener

Why are we not properly taught the skill of listening, when we’re at school?! We’re always told we should be listening… but it’s very rare that we’re actually taught how we can be a good listener!   Here are...

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What is a pseudo-issue?

What is a pseudo-issue?

When you’re in conflict with someone, do you ever get a sneaky suspicion that the subject you are arguing about isn’t the *real* problem? If you do, that might mean that  you are upset about a pseudo issue. ...

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How to respond rather than react

How to respond rather than react

Do you ever find yourself saying things you regret? Or reacting to a situation or a person in a way that, deep down, you know is going to make the situation worse? It’s easily done, particularly in situations that are...

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